i'd rather be dreaming than living

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finally, i felt ready

i felt loved

i felt seen

i felt adored.

i opened myself up

words poured out of me

affection was not a currency i used to bargain with

i freely let him in 

intimacy was no obstacle

or so i thought.

who knew,

my body would betray me

that desire was in itself not enough

i had no more mental inhibitions

but visceral reflex, something i had never entertained the idea of,

who knew.

i felt like a failure.

undeserving of pleasure.

as if this further confirmed my fate

destined to be alone, lonely, 

lover to no-one

mother to no-one

just a nothing and nobody.

who could i blame

i can connect the dots

too easy to silently blame the perpetrator of inappropriate conduct all those years ago

but to what avail?

'i'd rather be dreaming than living,

living's just too hard to do...'